Category Archives: THOUGHTS

WHEN DO YOU SAY, “IT’S OVER.”?

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When do you say.. IT’S OVER.? Is it really over? Or is it just a suspension? Many people say that love is full of mystery. There are things that we cannot understand why? We cannot explain how? We cannot figure out when? And we cannot define where?

Love has always been the greatest word of all time. And being in love has always been the greatest feeling anyone could ever have. Every relationship has its own history to remember. Some are sweet, some may be painful, and most HAPPY!

There are a lot of books that explains how to understand the difference between a man and a woman’s perspective when it comes to love and relationships. A famous tagline would be, “men are from mars, women are from venus”. The explanation with this would be simple. That both sex came from two different planets with different behaviours. The two are extremely different.

In most cases, men are dominantly dictating while women are faithfully submissive. It’s the norm, but should it always be the “norm”? Sometimes, when you feel like it’s not anymore fulfilling being submissive to your man, a woman should think and re-assess the real status of the relationship that she has with him. If you think that your rights are being deprived, you can always say “no” and refuse to submit.

We all have choices, equal choices that were clearly defined by the Law and by God. And every choice that we make has its own consequence and purpose, much more the responsibility for any risks that may involve in such decisions. We may have all the choices, but we’re not perfect. We decide for something that we think would benefit us at the most, or would benefit others more than us. In short, our decision depends on our state of mind for the moment. Deciding being selfish, or deciding being selfless.

There are a lot of reasons why things should be over. Why relationships must end. And why we must stand for the decision that we made. Even if it could be a wrong decision in the future, the important thing is, you have decided.

Life is like a long flowchart. You must always decide every turning point. You follow the flow and the path to where your decision takes you, until you reach the END. The question would be, did you have the best ending? Then the question, “WHEN DO YOU SAY IT’S OVER?” will have an answer.

Life is beautiful, enjoy your flowchart! =)

A WHOLE BODY NUDE SCANNER

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the US airport is tightening their security by improving their passenger scanners. it’s a whole body scanner that can detect life threatening devices that a terrorist or even a an ordinary passenger is carrying with. this action is being done in the US airport, after they failed to detect a nigerian suicide bomber who attempted to create a terrorist attack on christmas day of 2009.

Obama is now directing all the US airports to use the latest whole body scanner by TSA (Transportation Security Administration). it is a state-of-the-art imaging technology that scans the body of the person passing through it, in a clearly nude image like even seeing your genitals and the private parts of the body.

they use a millimeter wave technology that beams a radio frequency energy to scan at a high speed from two antennas simultaneously as they rotate around the body. looks like they perfected the x-ray vision of SUPERMAN!

it scans the whole body, underneath the clothes their wearing, and produces the nude image of the passenger. i may say that this could be an overkill to passengers that are concerned with their privacy, much more to the protection of the kids that will be undergoing to this scan test, that they can be abused in pornography.

TSA claims that the scanning machine is incapable of saving, and transmitting the nude images produced by the device. but other reports tell, that TSA is lying about this information, to “protect” the people regarding their “privacy concern”.

technology has its own price. we are now paying everything about it. but as we all know, terrorists are far more “high-tech” than the administrators of their target. so they can counter any device that can hinder their terrorist attack.

the privacy of the civilians are now being sacrificed here, and even the young ones. this scanner thing is good if it will be used only for its purpose, which is to detect terrorism. but there are a lot of “not so good people” around, that might abuse the technology for their “personal pleasure”.

we are all humans with the same image of genitals when scanned. so, we must believe that it is just an SOP (standard operating procedure) that will guarantee our security as we travel in the air.

it’s technology! a technology that provides security, but sacrifices our privacy. or a privacy that will sacrifice our security. which would you prefer?

JUST A COMMENT: motwister.com

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just had a comment on GOOD TIMES WITH MO.. on his blog,

What ‘s The Furthest You’ve Gone To Check If Your BF/GF Was Cheating On You?

http://www.motwister.com/blog/2010/1/11/what-s-the-furthest-youve-gone-to-check-if-your-bfgf-was-che.html

well, it happened to me the other way around. my partner’s other woman, was the one spying on me.. i was wondering why there’s this girl bugging me on my social network accounts and even on my website/blogsite. and telling me, how sure i was that my man is faithful to me.. and other stupid blah blah.. i tried to ask my man, if he knew who’s this girl but, he just said NO, I DONT KNOW HER.. then, i checked on the girl’s facebook account, it was a public profile back then, so i had a chance to see her photo albums. much to my surprise, i’ve found a couple of pictures where, there’s this guy beside her, but i cant see the image of the man because it was cut, and the picture was cropped leaving only a part of the man’s arm and about a quarter of his body was left to be seen on the photos. but come on! i have been with my partner for three years, and i know even the slightest features on face and parts of his body. so, i confronted my man, and still he denied it! even if im already showing their cropped pictures on him! but the ending, he trashed that bitch.. and still, she’s spying on me.. had a blog on this incident..

http://rowenablanquera.com/2009/10/28/the-illegal-mistress/

THANKS, ASUS!

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Dear Blanquera,


Psssst….happy birthday! We know that the nation’s best kept secret is… your true age!

We hope your birthday holds in store,
Happy hours that overflow
With all you’re wishing for,
Making up a year that brings
A million happy things.

From all of us at ASUS


i received an email from ASUS, and i find it so thoughtful of them.. they are the first to greet me a happy birthday! haha! i just love myself, don’t yah think?

thanks asus! it was my 1st laptop, but sold it after a month.. and now i have my MSI..

CHEERS! (^,^)

BUSINESS AND ENTREPRENEURSHIP

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When i was a little child, my mother used to sell a lot of different items to our relatives, neighbours and even to my father’s employees. Even my father used to try different businesses at home, making us work there during weekends. We were raised by business minded parents, for which we thought at that time, was just their hobby.

Everyone in us has the urge or has a potential in making money from having our own business. Even the low income earners, has the ability to sell their goods and make money from it. Just like the street vendors, they sell everything that’s viable and usable to the commuters around them, because they already have a market on the streets.

When you sell and earn profit from it, you’re already in business. Regardless of the amount you have as a capital for as long as you’re getting an extra amount from the original price of your goods, it is considered as business.

There are a lot of SME’s ( Small and Medium Enterprise ) in the Philippines, and a sari-sari store would be a best example. When your store is located in a high foot traffic location, or in a community where consumers are in a high rate, your store can go a long way, and can even sustain the needs of your family, that can be totally your means of income.

In business, there are a lot of key points to be able to succeed in whatever industry that you choose to cater. But the most essential yet the simplest equation that a business must have, is the ability to earn money and make it constantly profitable. SALES-CAPITAL=PROFIT, is the basic equation in business. If you’re gaining a positive PROFIT, then we can say that you are in business. If your PROFIT doubles your CAPITAL, we can say that you are in a good and profitable business, for which you must maintain that rate to be able to earn and make it your means of income.

For me, real life is in business. Being an employee in a company does not mean that you’re living in a superficial life. It just suspends your potential to earn more and be your own boss. You only receive a fixed amount of  income per payday, and your money just end there. After payday, you spend it either for your personal or family maintenance, and the next thing you know, your money is gone! Then you will have to wait for the next payday to earn money again, to do the same. It’s like a “hand-to-mouth” cycle, that for some, it’s even worse because they cannot even meet both ends.

But when you put into your system that you need to earn more, you will tend to think of other alternatives to generate income. The best thing would be is in entrepreneurship. Yes, doing business the right way.

It’s the most challenging venture of all time! BUSINESS and ENTREPRENEURSHIP. Now what’s the difference of the two? Well, business is a general term for any agenda in any industry. Entrepreneurship is the specific term in the equation, SALES-CAPITAL=PROFIT! When you are in this equation, and literally practicing it, you are already an ENTREPRENEUR.

When you become an entrepreneur, you will see and experience the REALITY of life. You will be the driver of your automobile, you’re in charge, you’re in control. But it does not end there. A big and major responsibility will be given to you by your employees, and your consumers. You will learn a lot. Actually, the things that you’ve thought before was so simple, when you become an entrepreneur, it becomes complicated. The success of your business is in your hands. How you manage to motivate your employees to bring the best customer care, and how you please and satisfy your customers would be your everyday saga in order to keep it moving UP and being in the market sustainably.

I encourage all the casual employees to start doing business in entrepreneurship, NOW. If you’re earning from it, then we can say that welcome to the CLUB!

THE PERFECT MISTRESS

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this is from the blog entry of  Ruth Purple of  WOMEN’S HOME PAGE. i just like to share it with you..

Mistress – just the word itself imbibes negative impressions. Wives despise them and society looks down on them. Mistresses are associated with the word home wrecker with low morals. But if you really think about it, do they like being a mistress? Is that a choice they voluntarily choose or is it a written destiny? If there is such a thing as being “single-blessedness”- meaning people who are “blessed” or born to be single, is there such thing as “mistress-blessedness”? What kind of woman would chose to be a mistress in the first place? Being a mistress is never easy, so they say.

You cannot demand and you constantly settling for stolen moments and attention. But since you are the other woman and everybody hates you, you might as well excel in what you do. And you’d better be good in keeping yourself anonymous or you will be forever obtaining the mark of the Scarlet Letter. A perfect mistress is a lady who is an expert in handling her man and knows how to keep him and the relationship hidden- if you can’t do both, then you are just a bimbo who likes to “do” somebody else’s husband. What does it takes to be the perfect other woman, you ask.

The number one rule of being the perfect other woman is- know where you stand. This is the rule of the universe to have order-knowing your place- everything should be in its proper place and order-like the sun and the moon, the land and the sea. This means the other woman should never show affection in public to avoid scandal- scandal is worst than murder. Jesus was a victim of scandal, see what happened to him. So, if you don’t want to be crucified- save your urges inside the bedroom. The difference between a mistress and a wife is- a mistress never believes every word his lover is saying; another decree in being the perfect other woman- never believe what your man is saying to you.

In general, men are liars. They are driven to say whatever it takes to get what they want. “You understand me more that’s why I love you more than my wife.”- Never let this enter your head. This is usually a defense mechanism of a philandering man to justify his guilt for having a you. Enjoy every moment when he is showering you with sweet nothings but be on top of it. A mistress should have an ally- and there’s no better perfect ally than his lover’s assistant or secretary. You should know how to have a rapport with his lover’s secretary- for two main reasons- to keep tract of his lover and to cover-up for them.

The other woman always remembers that curiosity kills- especially if you are curious about the wife. It’s tempting to see the person your lover chose to sleep at night even if he “doesn’t lover her”. Curiosity can become very insatiable and before you know it, you are face to face with the wife with a gun pointing in your head. There are so many orders that a perfect adulteress should do but I will leave you with this one- discreetness. Mistresses should be synonymous with being discreet. A perfect adulteress should never brag or talk about being a mistress, she should never bad mouth or get jealous with the wife, the other woman should never ask for money, she should not travel with her lover- meet him somewhere else instead and most importantly she should never complain.

Mistresses, yes we don’t like the idea of them but they are also people whose only fault is being in love with the right person in the wrong time.

well, if that would be the category of a mistress, i’m definitely not one of them..

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FRIDAY THE 13TH

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it’s friday the 13th! there’s a scary stigma on this particular date among the fanatics of the “black world”. some says. that friday the 13th is a significant day for witches, vampires and other elements related to those. because this day, they acquire and attain their powers on its best, and they become so powerful.

friday the 13th occurs when the thirteenth day of a month falls on Friday, which superstition holds to be a day of good or bad luck. In the gregorian calendar, this day occurs at least once, but at most three times a year. Any month’s 13th day will fall on a Friday if the month starts on a Sunday. In this year 2009, this applies to the months of february, march, and november. and the next instance of this appears on the calendar for the year 2015. hmm.. quite a long wait!

wahahaha.. really scary.. but for others, it’s a time to have fun and enjoy as if it’s haloween! and to spook around with friends to share their “not so ordinary scary experiences”.

some pessimists believe that this day is a jinx in some sorts. like, they think that “bad lucks” may happen if you do something significant for this day.. like, starting a business, launching a project, buying something, or even going out.

well, for me, there’s no such thing as “bad luck”, though i believe in karma. that whatever we do, good or bad, it comes with an equally deserved karma. so, nothing to worry about friday the 13th.. but as they say, there’s nothing wrong if you would believe it, for as long as it would’nt affect your everyday life in a complicated way.. just like fengshui, right?!

so have a happy and wealthy friday the 13th! it would’nt be a hindrance to have fun this weekend!

 

YOURS TRULY!

rowena.blanquera@gmail.com

rween09@yahoo.com

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THE ILLEGAL MISTRESS

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have you ever thought about a woman who would like to be in a position of a filler to a man who has already a legal mistress? in short, a woman who would love to be an illegal mistress! there is such a thing.. and i just recently discovered that stupidity.

let me first define the three characters mostly used in this post.

legal miss- a mistress, legally acknowledge by the family, friends and relatives of the man to whom the woman has a relationship with

illegal miss- a mistress, unknown to many, and has a secret relationship with a married man who has already a legal mistress.

man- a complicated, still legally married man, now separated with his lawful wife.

long ago, there was a girl who opted to get involve with a married man, who was actually living with his lawful wife during that time. their relationship became so serious, enough to have a child of their own. the fight within the wife and the mistress was so verbally hurtful to a certain extent, that some nasty things were done even on the internet by both.
but in the end, the mistress won. because the man choose the other woman which is his mistress over his lawful wife. and so their life continues.
the mistress was still in an unstable mind and thinking that they can make it though. their relationship went on and off, but they still managed to patch things up. a lot of goodbyes were done, mostly every month due to the insecurities felt by the woman.
but even so, the woman loved his man so much, that she never thought that her man could be cheating on her.
the woman does’nt know that her man has met another woman, that became his confidante in times of their quarrels and misunderstandings. the woman has become the “illegal mistress”. it was unknown to the “legal miss” that during the times that they were apart, her man was already building an intimate relationship with the “illegal miss”.
they were always having fun while hanging around with each other, but their relationship was a top secret to all.
the man maintained his relationship with his “illegal miss” because he had not experienced any problems with her in terms of time constraints. the “illegal miss”, was such a great follower and believer to the man, that she thought she already knew everything. but she was so wrong.
she was overly confident that the man loved her above all, and would trade anything just to keep her.
the man already felt happiness with her “legal miss”, as he observed that she has become more stable with regards to the stability of their relationship. he has found the direction in their relationship as a family, having their child and seeing it growing.
the “illegal miss” noticed it, so she started digging up on her boyfriend’s “legal miss”. she wants to know what’s happening? and why does his man’s time for her became shorter and limited. until she finally got what she wants. the details.
the “illegal miss” started to show herself to distract the “legal miss” of his boyfriend. the man still wanted to keep their relationship unknown to many. but truth will always prevail, no matter how hard you hide it. it will come out freshly from the oven.. haha
upon discovering, the “legal miss” immediately broke up with her man. she was very upset, hurt and felt the sudden rush of pain every time she thinks about it. she was terribly shaking that she was not ready to accept it and still thinks that what happened was so unbelievable!
but finally, the man broke down, and made a decision to choose. he choose to be with the woman whom he loved so much. the “legal miss”. and now, they are picking up the pieces, and strengthening their team effort to make their relationship work until the end..
how can a woman, who already knew the great complication of the life of that man, and still wanting to have a relationship with him? how stupid she was that she entered that world. really stupid. and now, she’s getting what she deserves..

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WHY MEN CHEATS?

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why men cheats? do i have to specify the answers one by one?
men cheats not because they are born polygamous. men cheats because they are insecure.
exactly. and i am very sure about that answer. come on, guys! explain why..
most men feel secure if they have a lot of girls around them.. when i mean girls, it refers to girlfriends. they wanted to feel secure because they want to “belong”, in a circle where they can brag about their charm on girls to their friends. it adds the machismo effect on their pride.
and the result? a lot of innocent women gets hurt because of the men’s “playfulness”. men does not consider the fact that someone might be loving them wholeheartedly and sincerely but they would not notice it.
men enters on multiple relationships with women because they just want to have a “spare tire” when the other girl splits up with them. they need a fall back.. hmm.. wise, isnt it?
men cheats on women because they are afraid of rejection. when a woman tried to reject them, men would not feel a big impact because somebody else is waiting for them.. it goes with the saying, “saving for the rainy days!”
men cheats on women because they are afraid to be alone. as we all know, men are emotionally weak. they do not verbally express their feelings or disclose it with someone to get relief. they just go out of their way to enjoy and forget about the “hurt” that they are feeling. but inside they are broken. they make use of that excuse to meet other women who can understand them and goes with them while enjoying the ride, then eventually have an intimate relationship with her.
men cheats on women because they are coward. statistics shows that most relationship breakups were initiated and proposed mostly by women. and those breakups were caused by the unfaithfulness of their male partner. meaning, that men are coward to tell their significant other that they are not in love with them anymore, that they have found someone better to get in love with. why? because they dont want their girlfriend to get hurt if they would know the reason why their boyfriend is splitting up on them. they are not just telling the truth, they also keep on hiding the truth as best as they can. how ruthless, isnt it?
men cheats on women because they are protecting their own benefits. yes. “friends” with benefits. when we say benefits, these are aspects in general means. everything that men enjoys in their multiple relationships goes with that. time, sex, attention, pleasure, leisure, all of them!
men cheats on women beacuse they are not contented. come on, nobody’s perfect. and each character of us compensate each other’s flaws. men wants a woman who has a perfect character. but does it exists? of course it does’nt. so they tend to fill up their girlfriend’s inadequacy from someone else’s capability. and so the cheating happens.
men cheats on women because they really dont know how to love. a simple explanation would do. when you really love someone, you have to accept everything about her. her past, her mistakes, and her character. when you love, there should always be truth and respect. loving might be hurtful, but atleast you are truthful. the burden would not be as hard and as big if men will just be truthful to their significant other.

so what now? should a man validate this? or women alone, can agree to that?
now men, how do you plea?

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NEVER TOO LATE FOR THE OUT-OF-SCHOOL YOUTH

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i have always been a believer that education is only the answer to poverty. unfortunately, many Filipinos, and other children around the world has been deprived from their right to be educated formally. the main reason? poverty. they have no other means to suffice the budget on education for their family. let me share you my story..

on my third year in highschool, our family had a financial crisis, causing my studies to suffer. so i had no choice but to stop going to school. i never opted to transfer in a public school because i dont want to experience any “culture shock”. so i became an “out-of-school youth”.

at 14, i experienced to work in a grocery store as a saleslady, bagger and a merchandiser at the same time. it was really a tough job for a teen like me during that time. but still i was happy because i was helping my family.

i was out of school for two long years, and just finished second year highschool then. it was really painful to me but i have to be resilient during tough times.

fortunately, a great opportunity came into me as i went to my previous highschool in alabang. when they learned that i didnt continue on my highshool, they referred me to the DECS Division Office in Alabang to take the PEPT or the Philippine Educational Placemet Test. it’s an acceleration examination for people who has been out of school for a long time that will give them an opportunity to skip a certain level higher from what they have achieved. it depends on the capability of the examiner to where he can accelerate himself, based on stock knowledge and logical reasoning.

and gladly, i passed. i was accelerated from second year highschool to college level, skipping 2 years of third and fourth year in highschool. that’s why i never experienced JS Prom ( very unfortunate, lol!). it was such a blessing because the years that i stopped from school just became an offset of what i missed in highschool. it’s like i never stopped from school! i have saved a lot of time, energy and money from skipping the two-year highschool levels! and i consider that as one of my greatest achievements.

that was a major turning point in my life. so i entered college without any knowledge about chemistry and physics! i only have the urge and exitement to finally go back to school, and learn the academics! i had a tough first year in college so, i had to double the effort to learn. english and literature was never a problem to me back then, but when it comes to numbers? please spare me! (haha lol!) through the help of my friends, and my hard work, i was able to finish college in electronics engineering. then, had my work afterwards. there you go..

so to all the OSY’s out there, take the next step. inquire the nearest DECS Division Office in your area about the process of registration and the whole examination procedure. they will give you guidelines on how to avail the opportunity and the documents they require. GOODLUCK!

BORN TO BE A MISTRESS?

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in reality, people have been naming names to women who has an intimate relationship with a married man, to whom they are not legally binded by the law of mankind and the law of God.
hooker, kabet ( for filipinos), home wrecker, bitch and other not so good to hear names.
well in legal terms, the right word for that would be an adulterer, that of which should be proven guilty beyond reasonable doubt through evidence. and also, it must be presented on the judicial court, by the complainant. but for as long as it is not in the legal manner of presentation, the person cannot be called as an adulterer.
in Godly manner, yes it can be. the person can be called an adulterer through the eyes of God, depending on the religion and belief of the concerned person. Like in Muslim culture, it is acceptable to have multiple wives as their partners, provided that they can maintain and sustain the needs of their family with the other wives. But in the Roman Catholic Church, it is forbidden and sinful to have another woman, other than the legally binded wife. so what this is all about?
either way, whether you are the mistress or the legal wife, everything would be an argument. there are a lot of cases where, a married man or a woman is intimately acquainted and related to another person, by choice. and the complication goes everywhere within the relationships.
i do not endorse that the idea of having a mistress or multiple partners is justifiable. i only want to emphasize that we should not judge anybody by the choice that he made, for as long as it does’nt give any harm to others who are not concerned about.
respect is the key. because we all have the 3 F’s.. flaws, faults and failures. we will all be liable to whatever 3F’s that we have. we just need to learn to understand and accept the 3F’s that we see in each other.

TRUTH OR COMPLICATE?

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many people today experience a lot of complications in their lives. most of those complications is all about love and relationships. some has multiple partners that takes them to the complexity of the word itself.
for me, complicated is just a statement. it can only be complicated if you wont let it clearly understandable to many. being complicated does not mean that you are not simple. it only means that you have a lot to explain.
but sometimes, we dont need to explain it or to elaborate it to a certain extent that we might confuse the audience. there are people that does not have the right to know everything about our life. if we choose to keep it private, then be it. if we choose to tell everything to the world, then shout it!
they say truth hurts. and i agree to a portion of it. but when we say truth, does it have to mean pain? truth is very subjective. i got an opportunity to ask a man, not closely related to me, about why does the truth hurts? he associated it with love, with a significant other. that, if you think your loved one or your partner will get hurt, if she will be able to know the truth about you cheating on her, she will definitely get hurt. but if she does not know, she wont get hurt a bit.
my point to that is, it should not be the truth that hurts, it’s the awareness to the truth that hurts.

in my own view to this “truth thing” would be.. just tell the truth, then you will be set free. free from carrying heavy loads and the guilt. it’s still best to walk lightly, because you will never miss a thing on your journey.

OOPS, I DID IT AGAIN!

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just recently, i have dealt with a problem, that i think was too huge and very serious. that’s the reason why i became inactive in my blog.

well, now finally the storm has ended. i manage to survive and im back with vengeance.

i love my family so much. they are my life, and i’l do evrything to protect them from any harm.

ABSENT FOR A WHILE

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i’ve been busy for the past few days on my work.. so, i have’nt had enough time to update my blog.

it’s been tough at work and still.. but i have no choice but to stay because i don’t have other means to earn money. i have been thinking about going into business, but i’m overwhelmed with the ideas of what business should i choose to begin with.

life oh life.. i am not happy anymore with my present job. it gives me a lot of stress, that gives me headaches once in a while. i want to work in an environment where i can do my job effectively and staying happy at the same time.

if i could just resign as easy as that, i would do. i want a new place to work with, new people to deal with, and a more chalenging  tasks which i know, it can make me a better person. but it does’nt make sense for now..

rowena.blanquera@gmail.com

rween09@yahoo.com

GREAT DAY TODAY

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thumbs up
it’s a great day today, hot and sunny morning, gives us some relief after the traumatic storm experience.

i did not have much time to write something yesterday,

my hubby and i went to the mall, just to window shop, but still we ended up buying things that we need, and also to make ourselves a little bit happy. we bought ourselves a new wallets, from girbaud. and shoes from gibi and herbench. it does not costs too much, not to feel guilty about buying, coz we need it anyway.

i just feel bad, because of my cellphone. it’s not working anymore, but i cant afford to buy a new one. if i buy a new one, i would probably prefer the latest phones, but it’s too expensive.

but anyway, it’s a matter of priority.

so much for the typhoon updates for now.. it’s time to rebuild and secure a better home for everyone.you.

you are always welcome to donate on the legit foundations to be able to help the flood victims of ONDOY and PEPENG accross the country.

God Bless You All!

rowena.blanquera@gmail.com

rween09@yahoo.com

ANO KAYA?

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bakit kaya mahirap magblog? parang feeling ko, wala naman akong something interesting to say.. ganun naba talaga ka boring ang buhay ko ngayon? hay nako.. ayoko namang magshare ng something private about my life story.. kasi medyo magulo nga. baka lalu lang nakakahiya. ano kayang topic ang pwedeng pagusapan? family? friends, society.. ano? let me know naman.. u can suggests..